Parents/spectators have a great influence on children’s enjoyment and success in football. All children play football because they first and foremost love the game – it’s fun. It is important to remember that however good a child becomes at football within your club, it is important to reinforce the message to parents/spectators that positive encouragement will contribute to:
- Children enjoying football
- A sense of personal achievement
- Self-esteem
- Improvement in the child’s skills and techniques.
A parent’s/spectator’s expectations and attitudes have a significant bearing on a child’s attitude towards:
- Other players
- Officials
- Managers
- Spectators
Ensure that parents/spectators within the club are always positive and encouraging towards all of the children, not just their own.
Encourage parents/spectators to:
- Applaud the opposition as well as your own team
- Avoid coaching the child during the game
- Not to shout and scream
- Respect the referee’s decision
- Give attention to each of the children involved in football, not just the most talented
- Give encouragement to everyone to participate in football.
Ensure that parents/spectators within the club agree and adhere to the BWFC Code of Conduct and Safeguarding Children Policy.
The club expects all parents and spectators to:
- Provide transport to players for both training and matches
- Support the team manager, team and players.
- Be positive role models in terms of language, attitude, restraint and sportsmanship.
- Use positive comments only – encourage rather than discourage.
The following will not be tolerated by the Club and is deemed completely unacceptable behaviour:
- Verbal abuse.
- Negative comments
- Entering the field of play.
- Obscene or discriminatory language.
- Arguing with officials or opposition supporters.
- Supporting bad behaviour of players
- Interfering in the Managers role.
- Racism.